Hi Bob,
This would be a macOS related issue.
ConnectMeNow only executes the actual mount command.
Further file handling is all done by macOS.
The only workaround I could find was relaunching Finder (other filemanagers like ForkLift and PathFinder have a refresh button - I prefer ForkLift since its a one time payment versus subscription none-sense, and it less convoluted with features I do not need).
Press "Option" key and keep it pressed, right click on the Finder icon, and choose "Relaunch" (same a using "Force Quit").
I'm sure there must be a more elegant way to do this.
This Apple Script (you can run it from Terminal) seems to trigger a refresh, but found it wanting my password or touchID for each open Finder window it seems.
osascript -e 'tell application "Finder" to tell front window to update every item'
Note: Just found this article on GitHub that may be helpful - but be very careful when tinkering with these suggestions and use them only if you understand the implications. The one at the bottom may be helpful (link), but again, be careful editing system files like nsmb.conf.
If you run into a Terminal command that does this in an elegant way, then please share it here, so I can actually implement een refresh option in ConnectMeNow 😊